Sunday, November 13, 2011

Peace Corps in Panama: Giving Back this Holiday Season


Dear Family & Friends,

As many of you know, I am currently serving as a Peace Corps Volunteer in Western Panama. For the past year I have been living in a small village with members of Panama’s largest indigenous group, the Ngäbe. My job as an Environmental Health Volunteer is to work with the local community to improve their access to clean water and effective sanitation systems. As a Peace Corps Volunteer I strive to leave a sustainable impact on my community, Bajo Cacicón, through empowerment and capacitation. Many of you have expressed interest in contributing to my Peace Corps work. I am now at the point in my service that it is easy for friends and family to get involved.

(If you have already heard my story and would like to contribute to my project, you can scroll down and follow the link at the bottom. If not, please read the story of my project that follows.)

My work thus far has focused on identifying my community’s strengths and weaknesses, their most urgent needs, and the challenges associated with the extreme poverty of the region. Using my Peace Corps training, community organizing skills, and much-improved Spanish, I have facilitated a variety of community meetings and discussions. Through this process the community was able to unite and determine their primary need of new latrines.

Currently without latrines, the people of Bajo Cacicón use Quebrada Plata, a nearby stream, to go to the bathroom. Quebrada Plata is also the sole place for bathing and washing, and the water is used for both cooking and drinking. This environmental and public health nightmare leaves the locals with regular bouts of e.coli, giardia, and amoebic dysentery. Children are the most at-risk group and suffer awful consequences due to the exposure of these pathogens. Bloated bellies and severe diarrhea are common symptoms among children and exacerbate malnutrition and other poverty-related health problems.

The people of Bajo Cacicón and I have developed a plan to solve this problem. We will build 46 latrines for families within the community to improve the health of over 300 people. Basic latrines will ensure that all dangerous pathogens are contained a safe-distance from Quebrada Plata and will no longer threaten the health of the community.

Because the Peace Corps seeks to empower and capacitate we are requiring each family to contribute 50% of the construction of their latrine. This contribution will be in the form of materials (supplying sand and wood) and labor (transporting purchased materials to the community and construction of the latrines). The easiest way for you to help the families of Bajo Cacicón is to send a donation for the purchase of required materials. The monetary cost of building a latrine for one family is $102.

I am asking each of you to consider the health and well being of a community that has been under-served by its country and is working hard to make positive changes. I feel fortunate to be living and working with the people of Bajo Cacicón. Please contribute the amount you are able and consider paying for at least one family to complete this project.

Children of my host family bathing in a stream

To donate, visit my Peace Corps website and use a credit or debit card to make a contribution. 100% of your donation will go directly to build latrines in Bajo Cacicón. Feel free to send me an email with questions or comments. I would love to hear from you. Also, please forward this email to anyone that might be interested in my project. Thank you for your time and consideration. Any amount you can give will significantly improve the lives of the children and adults of Bajo Cacicón.

Sincerely,
Scott Mortensen

Friday, November 11, 2011

In the land of Anteaters and Sloths

One perception all volunteers living in the Comarca quickly make is that Ngabe's like to kill nearly all living animals. This is hard to get used to, especially when it comes to the killing of endangered animals. To give credit where it's due, though, I must admit that most animals are killed for food. Iguana, paca, agouti, armadillo, peccary, "conejo pintado", river shrimp, squirrels and a whole host of birds are hunted with nothing more than slingshots and good dogs. All the animals are delicious (even iguana). Additionally, a friend of mine living on the Caribbean coast complains of people hunting endangered sea turtles.

Animals are also killed for prevention and, unfortunately, fun. We call that "por gusto" here. The hummingbird they killed was a lucky shot from a slingshot. The possum was killed because (i'm told) they kill chickens. In a land of such rampant and effective killing you can understand my surprise when I encountered animals as large as an anteater and a sloth.

The anteater was shown to me by my fourteen-year-old host brother, Cuchinto, after he nearly beat it to death with a stick. I was impressed with the first anteater I've ever seen -it reminded me of a wolverine or small bear because it was muscular and visibly strong. The family's two best hunting dogs encountered it slurping ants out of the ground and decided to attack. Bad idea. The anteater quickly slashed its sharp claws and nearly killed both dogs. I was upset to see the kids playing with the suffering animal when I asked Cuchinto, "why are you killing it?" "For revenge" he said.

Cuchinto on the left with his cousin playing with the anteater

More recently I was shown to a sloth inching it's way along a branch quite high in a tree. Cuchinto, determined to make things more exciting, climbed up and shook the sloths branch until it fell from the tree. The kids surrounded the sloth and picked him up by placing stick in his hands to grab onto, which he did (see picture). He seemed to be fine from the fall. The kids played with him for a while before he escaped up a tree. I asked, "you're not going to kill it?" "no", they said, "they don't bother anyone."

Just after falling from the tree the sloth grabbed a stick Cuchinto put into his lap

A few days after this encounter I returned home from a hike to a neighboring community and found a rotting sloth carcass in the middle of the path. At home, Cuchinto's twelve-year-old brother, Pepo, asked if I saw the dead sloth. I nodded. He puffed his chest and bragged that he had killed it. "Why?" I asked. "I don't know. Por gusto," he replied.

Happy 11/11/11.

Tuesday, November 1, 2011

A Year of Perceptions

Exactly one year ago today I hiked to my site in the middle of the rainiest month of the year to officially start my Peace Corps service. Many accomplishments, numerous challenges, and countless invaluable experiences have made the last year immensely rewarding. I find myself closer to my neighbors, closer to the land we live on, and closer to fellow volunteers (they are a wonderful support system). Now, on my way to celebrate our "one year" with the rest of group 66 at a resort on the Caribbean coast, I have been trying to think of a blog post to commemorate the past year. I've decided to pick ten perceptions that shed light on the Ngäbe "experience":

(In no particular order)

1. Toughness is Valued. Whether it's brothers hitting or slapping one another or a mom remarking "How pretty" to her sons scraped-up chest after he slid down a palm tree shirtless, pushing through pain is expected and taught from a very young age.

2. Physical Abuse is Present. I've heard many stories but I have personally only witnessed Lela grab a twig to whip the children when they misbehave -especially when they are whining or crying. I also hear parents make threats, saying, "Be careful, I'll hit you."

3. Voice Inflection Tells as much as Words. Speaking here seems more exciting and interesting than back home with ups and downs, highs and lows, and drawn-out syllables. The more time I spend here I realize it really is an art to speak with such excitement. Lela is the grand-master at this. She says things like "It was HARRRRD" or "I went faaaaaarrrrrrrr" and her audience knows just exactly how hard it was or far she went by the emphasis she places on certain words. I love talking this way.

4. Non-Verbal Communication is Commonly-Used. People make animal sounds (especially chicken and dog), whistle, and hand gesture to communicate. The fewer words the better. It is not uncommon to have entire conversations with only hand-gestures because there is a sign for just about everything. Popular signs replace "lets go", "want to eat?", "the car is full", "no", "what's up?", "why?", and many other phrases or questions. This practice is especially fun to watch when two grand-masters go at it and volunteers take a lot of pride in perfecting this delicate skill.

5. Gender Roles are clearly Defined. This is true in most rural and poor parts of the world. Female roles include: tend to the children, harvest food, haul water from the river, wash clothing, cook, and make artisanry such as nagwas and chakras (traditional dress and bags, respectively). Male roles involve building structures, hauling wood for cooking fires, slashing and burning, planting, and harvesting food. Attending meetings and visiting people are not gender specific. Children are expected to do what they are told, which usually includes roles from both genders.

6. Children help a lot. The importance of contributing is also taught and learned at a very young age. Everyone contributes and works hard. My favorite example is the five-year-old, Luiz. He hikes uphill forty-five minutes to school every day, hikes home, and then is expected to retrieve water, serve food to visitors, burn trash (which he loves), and help his mom harvest food.

7. Grandparents Help with Childcare. Not only does Lela watch her grandchildren for weeks at a time but Lela's children expect it, they don't provide any material or monetary assistance to offset food costs, and Lela and her family are more than happy to have the company. Right now, two grand-daughters have been living with Lela for three weeks while their mom (Lela's daughter) nears the end of her third pregnancy.

8. People are Shyer Away from their Homes. This is to be expected to a certain degree in any culture but the transformation here is drastic. I can laugh and share food with someone in their home but when I cross them in a path near another home or near other people it is as if they don't know me. I have paid careful attention and I know it's not just me; they do it to each other, too. It doesn't matter if they are cousins or siblings either. Some people are not shy but most are.

9. Killing everything is Popular. Animals are not only killed for food. Hummingbirds, anteaters, sloths, and possums are all killed and not eaten. There are probably more than fifteen different types of wild animals that are hunted and eaten here, though. I have eaten most of them and they are all delicious. The reality that some of the animals are endangered is difficult to accept and a hard subject to breach.

10. This Place is P-R-O-D-U-C-T-I-V-E. Generous amounts of rain and sun can transform a cleared plot of land into an impassable green wall taller than me in a short amount of time. Landscapes change drastically over time as man battles nature to plant crops. Also, animals and humans procreate like it's their job. My host dad, Samuel, has fourteen living children with two wives and we had six dogs but two died.

Sunday, October 23, 2011

A Peace Corps Diet

You might be surprised to learn that for me and many of my fellow Comarca volunteers the most difficult parts of being a Peace Corps Volunteer have been food related. As Peace Corps mandates, PCV's must spend their first three months living with host families, working with them, and eating their food. Everyone gets sick. Bacterial infections, e-coli, giardia, and amoebas are all common (i've had three of them) and essentially unavoidable. They all lead to uncontrollable and uncomfortable bowel symptoms. I know at least five people just from my group in the Comarca who have pooped their pants and nearly everyone has been very close. One pooped herself twice in less than half a hour on her way to pooping thirty-two times in a single day. As my friend Chris says, "I never thought it would happen to me but then I literally could not pull my pants down fast enough."

We volunteers find these stories hilarious to the point of tears. It's all in the details. In the Peace Corps you get comfortable talking about your bowel movements. For me, though, the biggest problem with the first three months was the amount of food I was getting. I come from the Mortensen clan of impressive eaters and two meals per day just wasn't enough. Between sickness and "starvation" I lost fifteen pounds in two months.

That all ended nine months ago. Now my weight is back and I cook for myself, although I am still given a lot of food (I consider this the perfect combination). The culinary highlight of every day is breakfast. I make a big bowl of oatmeal with sugar/honey, bananas/raisins, crunchy peanut butter, dried milk, and cinnamon. Compared to the rest of my diet breakfast is D-E-L-I-C-I-O-U-S. Lunch and dinner are almost always a variation of rice whether I cook it or not. Rice with beans, lentils, wild meat, squash, sardines, and noodle soup are very popular foods. I usually prepare my rice by throwing some fried or steamed veggies on top.

Recently harvested rice with sardines. Very popular. Not very good

There are also foods that are prepared for special occasions such as birthdays and holidays. These include spaghetti made without meat and my favorite, fried rice with chicken and vegetables (called "arroz con pollo"). This new years we are going to kill and roast a pig my neighbors have been raising to celebrate the return of their daughter from Switzerland.

Lela showing Kate how to make "arroz con pollo"
Kate serving two bowls of the delicious dish
Fruits available here include pineapple, banana, mango, orange, guava, passion fruit, and "mamun chino".
"Mamun Chino". Bitter, sweet and delicious 

Wild meats include paca, armadillo, agouti, iguana, peccary, squirrel, birds, river shrimp, and "conejo pintado". Many of them are endangered.

Three "conejo pintados". Cute, endangered, and good eatin'

Delicious non-rice staples are cassava, ñame, ñampi, otoe, and pixfae.

Pixfae with salt.




Sunday, October 2, 2011

Happy 50th Peace Corps!

As 2011 nears its end I feel obligated to publicly wish Peace Corps a happy golden birthday. You see, this is no ordinary birthday -the Peace Corps is big. And its ideals are bigger. My Peace Corps birthday blog:

Quick Facts:
  • over 200,000 PCV´s have served in 139 countries the past fifty years
  • currently 8,655 PCV´s serve in 77 countries
  • across the world PCV´s are taught over 250 languages
  • the oldest PCV was Arthur Goodfriend, who was 87 when he finished his service in 1994
  • there have been four PCV´s in congress (including Christopher Dodd and Paul Tsongas)
  • the average age of PCV´s is 28 years
  • 7% of PCV´s are serving with their spouse
  • "Volunteers" (1985) with Tom Hanks is the most famous ´Peace Corps´ movie
  • Famous PCV´s include Chris Matthews, Lillian Carter (Jimmy´s mom), Bob Vila, Reed Hastings (founder of Netflix), and Richard "Kinky" Friedman
A History:

The first time the Peace Corps was  mentioned publicly came during an impromptu speech to the students at the Universtiy of Michigan on October 14, 1960. The speech was a response to Richard Nixon, who thought such ideas were nonsense and would lead to a haven for draft dodgers. Riled up, at two in the morning JFK challenged to Wolverines to give two years of their lives toward helping people in the developing world improve their lives. What Nixon viewed as a bad campaign move by Kennedy was met with resounding positive feedback not only from the U. of M. students and other universities but from Americans all across the country. They swept the charismatic JFK into office in January of 1961, and when he said "ask not what your country can do for you, ask what you can do for your country" many people believed the Peace Corps embodied the perfect answer to that challenge.

The Peace Corps "official" mission (quotations will be explained shortly) of world peace and friendship revolves around three goals: 1) to help the people of interested countries in meeting their need for trained men and women; 2) to help promote a better understanding of Americans on the part of the people served; and 3) to help promote a better understanding of other people on the part of Americans. The current Peace Corps director, Aaron S. Williams, holds goal three as the most important to focus on. I agree.

Now why did I put ´official´ in quotations? Because until Jimmy Carter granted the Peace Corps full autonomy in May of 1979, the Peace Corps was run by the State Department! Needless to say, many PCV´s were involved in -and accused of- some secret and sketchy activities those first two decades. Not only were those activities directly antagonistic to the Peace Corps´ stated mission, they also weakened the legitimacy of the entire agency. The Peace Corps is not proud of this but does not deny it either. They focus on the fact that they fixed their mistakes.

When Ngäbes ask me if I am part of the US military (and they do) I usually respond "Are you serious? My agency is called the PEACE Corps! Of coarse not." But then I get honest and say that in the past we were connected to it but that changed a long time ago. Most respond simply "that´s good because peace is better than war." But on one occasion a person responded "but I´m sure the PCV´s back then said the same things you do now -how am I suppossed to trust you?" At that moment I realized two things: 1) maybe he´s not suppossed to trust me after what I just told him; and 2) that actions thirty to fifty years ago still threaten the legitimacy of the entire agency. So I said. "lets go harvest some mangoes," determined to let my actions speak for me instead.

Back to the story. After his inauguration, JFK  asked his brother-in-law, R. Sargent Shriver to lead a task force looking into the Peace Corps idea. Six weeks later "sarge" (as he is affectionately referred) said in a report "Having studied at your request the problems of establishing a Peace Corps, I reccommend its immediate establishment." Sarge was then appointed the agency´s first director and his can-do attitude and commitment to public service are credited as being the right potion to get the nascent agency on its feet and running. For these reasons he is considered the father of the Peace Corps.

R. Sargent Shriver died this year -on January 18- at the ripe old age of 95. His friend and colleague who helped found the Peace Corps, Senator Harris Wofford, said in a recent interview "there is something special about a long journey that is part of one´s education. There should be long journeys in your life, whether in your own country or abroad. In the early Peace Corps years we turned Shriver´s name into a verb: to "shriverize" was to make something bigger and bolder, and do it faster."

Shriver´s son, Tim Shriver -who is CEO of the Special Olympics- spoke to everyone when he said "I hope you, too, will carry a little shriver in you."

Cheers to the Peace Corps and all the volunteers -past and present- who are proud to answer JFK´s call. I am confident in and humbled by your determination to ensure that Shriver´s spirit never dies. Happy Birthday.

Now go shriverize something.

Thursday, September 8, 2011

Typical Conversation

Conversations in the Comarca are easy because they don't vary. Other volunteers and I often find ourselves laughing at this reality. On a recent walk home I encountered a Ngabe man, Ediberto, whom I had met once before. As our conversation progressed over the forty-five minutes we walked together I found myself increasingly amused. The conversation, while long, was filled with a small amount of actual talking. Breaks in the flow of conversation were many and long. Typical of Ngabe people and other indigenous groups, breaks in conversation allow time for processing. This is because unwritten languages tend to have fewer conjugations and grammatical rules so one sentiment can be said many different ways. People need time to think about what the speaker was trying to get across. Talking too fast or responding too quickly is seen as rude because it doesn´t allow for time to process. Upon arriving my community I felt uncomfortable with seemingly endless awkward silences. My recent conversation with Ediberto was hilarious to me because now that I am comfortable in site I realize how little we covered over such a long period of time, how different that is from U.S. habits, and how much I like it. People are content just being in each others´ presence.

The Conversation 
(C=Choy/me, E=Ediberto)

C: Opppaaah!
E: Oowayyy. ahhh Choy, where are you going?
C: To Tole to buy food. I ran out. You?
E: You´re going to Tole?
C: Yes. But I am returning to my house later today.
E: You´re returning this afternoon? Ah yes.
C: And you, where are you going?
E: Over there.
C: To your house?
E: No
C: To buy food?
E: No
C: To work?
E: Yes.
C: Ahhh yes. It´s good to work. It leaves you strong.
E: Yes it is. I am always working hard.
C: There is always a lot of work to do, right?
E: Yes. Always.

(minutes later...)
C: So, how are you? Are you strong and healthy?
E: Yes, thanks to god. Everyone is healthy.
C: Oh how great. I am happy. Health is important.
E: Yes, very important. How do you like it here in this place, Choy?
C: I like it very much. I am always hiking. But I am more accustomed to it now and I like it. It makes me strong. Very good people, good work, and good natural food! It is very different from my home but I like it.
E: It´s very good.

(minutes later...)
E: The rain is falling hard today.
C: Yes it is. Lots of mud.
E: Yes there is. Someone might fall.
C: Yes. We need to walk carefully.

(minutes later...)
C: Look at my pants. They are so dirty. And yours are so clean.
E: Yes. That is true.
C: How do you keep yours so clean? Lots of practice walking here, right?
E: Yes, of coarse. I don´t rub my feet against the inside of my legs like you do. That´s why you are so dirty.
C: Ahhh yes. It is hard for me.

(minutes later...)
E: Where are you coming from?
C: My house in Low Ñame Hill. Do you know Samuel Salinas?
E: Yes! He is family.
C: Your cousin?
E: Yes.
C: I live and work with him and his family at his house.
E: Ohhh yeah. Now I remember.
C: Yes. That´s good.

(minutes later...)
C: Where do you live again?
E: Over there.
C: At Money Stream?
E: No.
C: At Bean Stream?
E: No.
C: Oohhh at Carrizo Stream?
E: Yes. There.
C: Yes. That´s good.

(minutes later...)
E: Where are you from in the United States?
C: I am from a state called Alaska. Its very cold and there is a lot of snow.
E: Wowwww. Polar bears?
C: Yes, and moose and seals. Polar bears like to eat seals.
E: Really?
C: They wait on the ice and when the seal comes to a hole to breathe the polar bear grabs it.
E: Wow. How smart.
C: There are various indigenous groups that live there, too.
E: Really?
C: Yes. One of them, who are called Eskimo, live very close to the North Pole where it is VERY cold.
E: How do they survive there?
C: They have lived there for a long time and are very smart. They use the skins of seals and animal fur to keep them warm. They also hunt and eat whale.
E: They are related to the indigenous people here right?
C: Yes! They all came from Asia over an ice bridge to the Americas a LONG time ago. Some stayed in Alaska and some traveled here and some went down into South America...
E: How good. I wouldn´t survive where the Eskimo are though.
C: Yes it is very difficult. Me neither.

(minutes later...)
E: We don´t have a latrine at my house. Neither do my neighbors. Can you give us some?
C: oooooohhhh. I can´t. I don´t have any money for that. Peace Corps Volunteers don´t just give things -we prefer education work. But if you want, we can work together and see about doing a project together, and later we can look for funds if the whole community wants to work together and with Peace Corps. But it takes a long time.
E: Yes. We want to. The government representative is a liar and he brings us no projects.
C: Okay, I will come talk with you and other community members soon about setting up a meeting.
E: Ah yes. That´s good.

(minutes later...)
C: I am going to clean my boots off here in this water and then go to my house.
E: okay. That´s good.
C: Have a good trip! Bye.
E: Uh huh. Bye.

This might seem like a lot of talking but it was an entire conversation over a forty-five minute period. By far, most of it was carried out in silence. The Alaska and Peace Corps parts are second nature at this point -I say them so much. Communication is different among all cultures and it is always interesting to compare and contrast those different styles and appreciate their values. And there is always something to learn.

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

The Comarca: Where Getting Married is Synonimus with Getting Socked in the Face

Following the nearly six week stint in site (which I wrote about in my last blog) I took my counterpart, Samuel, to a Project Management and Leadership seminar. The highlight of the three-day event was the cultural night on day two where Samuel and I, along with other Ngabes and their volunteers, performed the traditional dance "Hegi," which is basically coordinated stomping. That night he was so excited about the cultural activities that we stayed up late chatting. It became our most interesting conversation to date. Samuel told me many interesting tidbits about Ngabe relationships in general and his personal experiences in particular. The following is a fascinating yet sad glimpse into life here, but it is also incomplete. Ngabe psychology is incredibly complex and different from my own and coming to real conclusions (even after living here a year) is nearly impossible. For that reason I present the following as I got it- openly but without much explanation.    

Ways Relationships Start

1) A group of working men are watched by a woman who just happens to be passing by. She is looking to see who works the hardest and "gritars" (a type of yell-greeting. Mine sounds like "oohwayyyyy") the best. After making a decision solely by herself (she gets no help from her mom, sisters, or friends) she approaches the man and says "I saw you working the other day and you work the hardest so I am going with you." According to Samuel, the guy is so proud to start his family the thought of saying "no" never crosses his mind. They're considered married.

2) Another way a relationship may start is how Samuel came to be with his first wife, Lela (pronounced "Layla"). After finishing sixth grade he worked on a farm a couple of years then returned and asked Lela's uncle, Alberto, if he could marry her (he would normally ask her parents but they had passed away from Tuberculosis when she was younger). Alberto said "yes" because he and Samuel were family; Samuel's sister has married Alberto years before. Despite Alberto's permission, not everyone thought Samuel was good enough for Lela. One day Lela's cousin confronted Samuel in a path and said "I don't want you to marry Lela so you have to fight me for her." Samuel refused and it wasn't until her cousin socked him in the face that he fought. According to Samuel, he won quickly. The following week, another cousin socked Samuel in the face for the same reason and with the same result as the first fight. Samuel had proven his valor and literally won Lela. He was 16; she 13.

3) The father of a young man meets with the father of a young woman. The mothers also meet. They must meet four times, each time drinking a large amount of "chicha fuerte" (fermented corn drink) and discussing the match. By the end of the fourth meeting they decide the two will marry. At that point they inform the two young adults of their fate which neither knew was being discussed. They don't have the option to decline.

4) A secret relationship which angers her parents when it is discovered. Her parents feel disrespected and for this reason the couple must avoid her family for an extended period of time. During this time she lives with his family while waiting for the anger to dissipate. After many months she returns home bearing gifts and food and is forgiven. After still more time passes the husband can go to his in-laws house but must do so very wearily because he is afraid of getting beaten up. After he is accepted and forgiven the in-laws visit, everyone parties, and all is good in the world.

Cheating/Divorce

If a woman cheats the two men must fight. The woman, then, must go with the winner. If the original husband wins he brings her home and beats her "because she has disrespected him". When her dad finds out and confronts the husband the husband explains what happened, the result being that her dad immediately understands and drops the matter. The husband is considered justified. On the other hand, if the original husband loses the fight he also loses the girl and the matter ends there.

If the man cheats it is a different story. This is because he is "male and stronger." There is no beating and rarely a fight (between the women). In this circumstance the woman has the right to leave her husband although this is rare. If she leaves and finds another partner the new husband and the old husband must fight because the old husband doesn't want her to be with anyone else. Regardless of the winner, though, she stays with the new husband.

Polygamy

Samuel asked Elena to be his second wife twenty-four years ago and despite him already having Lela, Elena said "yes." Some random day following that conversation Elena showed up at Lela and Samuel's home. Immediately everyone knew why she was there because she had never visited before. Lela was angry with Samuel and Elena. Since then, however, time has healed wounds and the women now consider themselves family. They share food, gossip and chat but their relationship is still more cordial than friendly. Elena's dad, Feliciano, upon finding out his daughter's plans, attempted to match her with someone else but she refused. Feliciano resorted to having his brother (Elena's uncle) sock Samuel in the face (knowing that if Samuel lost, he couldn't marry Elena). After Samuel won, Feliciano elicited his son (Elena's brother) to sock Samuel's face. After Samuel won that fight Feliciano had no choice but to sock Samuel in the face himself. Again Samuel proved his valor and won the girl. According to Samuel, since the fight with Feliciano he has been free to go anywhere he pleases without trouble and he and Feliciano are now good friends.

Lela has eight children aged five to thirty-four; Elena has six aged nine to twenty-three.

Along with their language and many customs, the Ngabe practice of polygamy is dying. It is unpracticed by the younger generations and will be gone within a few decades.

Last tidbit

Ever since he married Elena, Samuel has spent the large majority of his nights at her house and his days at Lela's. Why? I do not know. On the exceptions ("to keep Lela happy") Lela makes him sleep on the floor of his nine-foot-by-nine-foot store which is closer to my house than her's. When I asked him why he doesn't sleep in the bed with her he explained that she is "brava" (aggressive/fierce/angry) with him. Still, once a week, year after year he sleeps alone on the cold dirt floor of his little shack of a store because he thinks it makes Lela happy.